Field Report #9 - Latvia Stripper

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Field Report #9 - Latvia Stripper

by RaIph Loren on Wednesday, January 5, 2011 at 5:57pm

So last night I was on sunset and I was at a bar for this lacasting mixer. I wanted to go to network with other actors/actresses... more like I wanted to sarge the hot aspiring actresses there haha.

So right by the bar is a strip club and stippers go there before work to get a drink or to and just chill out. So I see this 6ft chic! long hair cutie.

Earlier on that night I was sitting by the heat and then moved away from it since it was hot. So she walks by the heat and I tell her "its feels good now but then you're gonna sweat your ass off"

She laughs. Walks away, then I do an observational topic and I see a bunch of patches and rips on her jeans. I ask her that I love her patches and just look at them. So I talk to her do a bit of chit chat, I started to DHV myself I started to think like Mystery since we're in LA all he did was game strippers so I started some routines on her. Did some cold reads and stuff. Made her laugh. I tell her I used to date a dancer as well haha. Then I asked if she was from Latvia since she has and accent. She was in shock that I knew. I told her I used to date a girl who was from Latvia (another DHV story). So then we talk. I see an open couch and I say oh shit my back is hurting lets sit down.

We sit and chit chat. Things are going well. Then I number close her and she tells me that she had a DUI before and she dosent drive. I come up with the idea of driving her home. In possible of closing. She agreess but yet she has to go back and make money and strip. So then my wing and I leave and hit up a different bar. At the end of the night I text her saying if she needs a ride. She does so then I come up with a plan on how "I forgot my keys in my apt" so I go back to my apt and have her come in real quick.

Then I find my keys shoo her out then I ended up driving her home. Nothing happened but I did number close her and ill try to make this into a day to. Since she was giving me mild IOIS and small compliance. She maybe a chic to need to take more time to warm her up.

Who knows. Ill keep ya on a update with this chic! Shitty part is that she works every night and so I dont know how I can get her to come out at night.

I'll figure this one out!

Field Report/Lay Report #8 - Off the period now its time to bang! Great way to start 2011!!

(This FR/LR is in regards to girl who was DTF then I got cockblocked by her friend who was not DTF then the next week she was on her period and now shes off)

So I must say what a great start for the new year. I closed the chic who was DTF then started her peroid the following week. Then closed on 1/1/11 haha HAPPY 2011!!! for me! I guess this makes up for me working on new years eve and not being able to party!

So yesterday I get a call from work cancelling me and I was like awesome I can go out and sarge. Then I realized that most people are going to be hungover and will probably not go out Jan 1st. So then I was thinking ill sarge anyway since shes probably still on her period so I wont go see her. But I needed a back up maybe a possible BJ who knows? So I send her a text telling her that I got cancelled etc. She tells me to come over because there was more shit that happened with her (I dont want to get into that detail) So I go to her place to comfort her.

We're there chillin on the couch cuddling drinking some wine and watching a movie. So then she grabs my hand and puts it by her pelvis as if she wants me to hold her but its really close to her vaj and I dont do anything. She does it a couple times through out the night then I start to massage her vaj then I start to finger her. So we're making out and things are getting hot and heavy. So the PUA gears turn on and I know I must do a freeze out. So then the pants are off!

She asks me if I have a condom. I say yes but then I heard this before with a diff girl asking me if I had a condom and then hit LMR and told me shes not that type of girl (this was with a diff girl) So quickly I do my freeze out after she asks me if I have a condom. I have the condom in my hand and I say:

Me: STOP WAIT... I dont want this to be a one time deal if we have sex. I like you and I want to go running and all the activities we have planned (I did a future projection so then she knows she will still see me)

Her: Are you trying to be like Edward? (from Twlight lol) - The story behind this was that I pretend to be Edward and its a big joke between us. Also in the movie (yes I watched twlight) Bella wants to bang Edward but he freezes her out like crazy, I suggest you guys watch it and use Edwards moves, its pretty good haha. So anyway Bella wants to fuck but then Edwards holds back and freezes her out. So I guess this is why she was asking me that. Also maybe I was giving really good strong eye contact when I told her that since I was being serious.

Me: No Im being serious I just dont want this to be a one time deal that you only like me for sex (me turning it around on her)

Her: she says something

Then I put on the condom and close! After that we order pizza and some more wine and watch more movies hehehe yay!

Time to reward myself with my personal goal which was:

Goal #3 - Get laid with a new girl I meet. - CHECK!
Reward: A nice $200 pair of jeans.

I can already tell that 2011 is going to be another good year!

Ralph

PS - Thank you JT and Gareth! You guys are big influence on my game!

Field Report #7 - Girl was DTF then her period started then BJ LMR :(

Field Report #7 - Girl was DTF then her period started then BJ LMR :(

So this is an update from the girl I met last Wed on who was DTF and I was so close to a SNL but then I got blocked by the non DTF friend. So anyway I went to SF for xmas. Before that I wrote about how I was switching up targets in which I did save myself! whoohoo! (I was also gaming her friend as well). I ended up saving myself saying that I just wanted to get to know her as well lol. Since thats how I roll, I like to get to know the friends as well lol. I was sitting at the airport and she calls me we chit chat and stuff I straighten things out with her shes like yeah blah blah blah (basically shes cool with it). So then we chat more and then she offers to pick me up when I get back so then I was like okay cool. I was kinda surprised that she offered to pick me up.

I was heistant but whatever. So then she picks me up when I get back and asks me to do some earrands with her I say why not. Then I go around with her and we talk about stuff that she needs to look up on the computer so then I preempt saying well we can look it up at my apt. so then I can bounce her back to my place.

A quick lesson learned: If possible clean your apt if a random girl decides to pick you up, youll have your place clean. - Im the type to clean my place so then when I get home I dont have to worry about cleaning.

So we bounce back to my apt she talks about being hungry so I was like oh well theres this sushi restaurant downstairs, thank god for having a sushi bar. She kinda brings up staying over if she drinks a lot of saki. I was like yeah I got a toothbrush and some shorts and a tee you can wear.

Now the clocks are turning and I am planning on how to bang her. She brings up that her period just started so shes having a bad stomache ache. How did I know? Bc I asked her whats wrong she said "my stomcahe hurts from a girl thing" code word shes on her period. I say to confirm it "oh you're on your period?"  she says yes - damn it!

I had everything ready all ready to go. Whatever ill just have her sleep over and get used to it so I can bang her later in the future and I can get a BJ. So we get sushi and we get drinks and I'm like well you can crash at my place so then you dont get a DUI - bc its totally not worth it... Well she already had one lol whoops!

So whatever we get back to my apt and we decide to watch a movie. Thank god for on-demand! So we order some on demand and we're cuddling and stuff.

I turn her and start maknig out with her, it gets hot and heavy. Caressing of her boobies then top goes off with bra. I start licking her nipples and then my top goes off. Keep in mind I'm just going for the BJ since shes on her period FML. So she starts kissing my chest and moves down. Im thinking hell yeah! BJ time. So the BJ is on and I get a 30 sec BJ! WTFFFF?!?!? She got LMR from a BJ whattttttt?!?!?

She says to me OH I cant do this, its just as intamate as sex. Oh god! LMR ON A BJ?!?! REALLY REALLY? lol oh well its okay there will be tomorrow. I really wanted to hit the 9hr mark. So then we watch a movie make out and cuddle and then go to bed at my place.

BLAH  - PERIOD/ 30 BJ WITH LMR/ NO DTF :(

There was really nothing I couldve done with her period. I seriously had it all planned out.

Well stay tuned for the LAY REPORT with this chic. Btw shes 33! haha time to check of bang a chic whos +30 on my Lay list! lol

Ralph

Going for the friend as well = Not good!

LOL Okay so this is in regards to the girls in FR #6. So the next day I started texting the other girl, my friends target. I asked him about if it was okay and he already knew she was into me and there was nothing he can do. He said go ahead and take her I dont care. So I thought let me see if I can go for 2 for 2 and see what happens lol.

Apparently it was a bad idea.

Girl 1 = Friends target
Gril 2 = My target

So I texted Girl 1 and I was telling her thanks for having us over blah blah blah. Then I suggested we should go to the zoo sometime. Trying to make it as a day 2. She was complying and suggesting other fun things to do. So I thought this is awesome haha. Then later on that night I get a text from Girl #2 and she was like "oh I heard you guys were texting each other and are gonna go to the zoo, I hope you guys have fun" - whoops! So then I say oh we didnt go I am trying to set up her up with my friend. etc.

So then later on that night my Girl 1 sends me a text "you should really go for my friend (Girl #2) instead. - So apparently they were talking and of course as good girlfriend she is she didnt want to step on any toes and they disscussed my texts haha. Then again today she texts me about how I should hook up with girl 2 and she was telling me how drunk she was.

So then I call her instead and immediately she picks up and we chat and she goes on how she cant date anyone. So I made it sound like that I was just being friends with her and nothing more lol. So I am in a bit of a mess and I gotta see how I can get out of thsi. Its okay because everything is all a learning expereince to me. Never try to get with the other bestfriend when the other girl arlready likes you. It doesnt hurt to try. LOL

So I will see how I can fix all this and I explained to the other girl how I was just being friends only and she thought I was trying to get with her (which she was right) but then I automatically made that shit up that I just wanted us to be friends lol. She was apologizing to me on how drunk she was and about how she had a thing for "chinese" boys haha - you gotta love how non asian girls just catagorizes Asian people as "chinese boys". Its okay.

New lesson learned for today. Maybe if I were to redo this situation and to go for girl 1 I would probably have to get with girl 2 then when we are both "drunk" it will just happen that girl 1 and I end up messing around oopsies! New lesson leared never try to go for both unless you got with one already get with the next!

Ralph

White girls loving Asian Men - Having a "thing" for them

Alright so I woke up and I remembered other things that happened that night in regards to Field Report #6. So while we were talking the girl who was my friends target told me that I was really cute and my target agreed with her. So I asked both of them: Have you ever dated/been with an Asian guy before?

Friends target: No
My target: Yes

So then I was like well why not? She told me she doesnt know why. I know that JT has written many articles about this and I am the type that I need to experience this first hand and I did. She told me she dosent know why she has a thing for Asians but she does haha. You guys may think that white girls are not into us but you  know what they secretly are. I used to have this mindset and you just need to change it around.

Yes you may say I am good looking but all PUAs work on the looks. I hit the gym, run, go tanning, get a cool hair cut, whiten my teeth, have better body language, (take care of acne problems which I dont have but if I did would go see a dermatologist). I created this unique look for myself to attract women. Do you think Mystery didnt groom himself? or Matador? JT? Jwolf? Gareth? AFC Adam? Gambler? - Notice all these guys at least do one of the following - workout, DRESS WELL, have good hair, good body language etc.

With that in mind I will leave a photo on how I look when I am at work and I dont give a shit. Notice how I have my glasses on and my hair sucks.

Field Report #6 - Close call SNL/DTF girl :(

Field Report #6 - Close call DTF girl :(

Its 542am and I am fucking tired but I am writing this field report. So I went out sarging with a buddy of mine and we are leaving the club and we are ready to go home. He gets this call from this girl he sarged. She's telling him to come over and hang out = translation: DTF. I tell her YO shes DTF! So I was like well ill go home. He was like no just come maybe her friend maybe DTF too. So I was like fuck it ill go then.

We get there I meet his girl and then I meet my girl. She was sitting in bed watching TV with a glass of wine. So I was like okay well I'll entertain her while my boy goes and talks to the other girl in the other room.

So I was there with my girl doing small talk. I was like OH god this girl is BORING!!! She does not seem into it but I just did more small talk. Like boring shit like what do you do etc. I throw in some DHV spikes just for the hell of it. Shes not bad Id say a good 7. So we chit chat. Then we talk about crashing over and other girl agrees. Before I hop in bed with her I automatically look at her in the eyes and tell her that its not going to happen and she looks at me and says yeah its not. (I love using LMR tactics) So then I was like alright I hop in bed with my girl next to her. Then automatically she latches on to me like I am a body pillow. So I was like ok well maybe she wasnt boring haha. So we're there in bed shes in my arms while my friend is in the room sitting on the bed with us with the other girl.

Other girl becomes non-DTF and starts getting all depressing. Being BORING her energy shifted. She did not want to go to bed with the 4 of us. So we chat me and my girl while my friend games the other girl. More small talk and some teasing haha. Throw more DHV spikes. I started talking about this 5k I am planning on doing and she was like OH I wanna run. So then I invited her to join the 5k race with me. Then I number close her. I wasnt on planning on it but now since we're in bed cuddling might as well.

So we talk and then she pops in gum (sign she planning on kissing). So she makes eye contact with me and i look back with her literally her face is so close that we are gonna kiss. So then I go for the kiss (thank god I did not pussy out like my old days) - Then BAM I go for the kiss and we kiss. So I'm still holding her and we continue to watch TV.

While my other friend games the other girl. Other girl was not feeling it then she suggested for me and my girl to go in the living room and she gets the bed to herself leaving my boy and me on the couch and my girl. We just ignore it. So then they keep talking where they cant see, I pull her closer to me and she turns to me and starts making out with me. I kiss for like .0863 seconds and pull away (haha freeze out! I cant believe I did that, old me would of made out) then I say not here. LOL and shes like then never haha. So I am doing all the girl moves and being the one to stop first. So then the other girl gets ansy and wants to sleep on her bed. My boy and I bounce.

Shit happens when one is down and the other is not! BOO! But I did number close her shot for a day 2 and did not esclate any moves while I was the one to hold myself back. I am actually pretty surprised withing myself for doing that. Horny me would be like MAKE OUT! but then the bang would not be possible since her friend was not cool.

I think I played my cards right and read all the signals correctly but just the other girl was not down. I also learned to keep pushing is what I did. I was already going to give up since I originally thought she was boring and I was not gonna get laid. In turn that it was the other way around haha. My main plan was to entertain the grenade which in turn she was not a grenade. Im glad that I just didnt go home and play Call of Duty: Black OPS (which I was looking forward in doing lol)

It is okay more chances like this is going to happen :)

Ralph

Acting Helps out PUAs - Part 2

Acting Helps out PUAs - Part 2

So another realization that came across from me was that I was able to attend a free improv class. Which just went over the very basics. I thought why not try this out since its free and I can sharpen my improv skills for my acting carrier (im doing on the side). For some of you guys (including myself at times) most guys say things like "I dont know what to say to her?" - I come across that issues myself. So I thought that improv class can help.

So when I went I learned that this can help by thinking on your feet faster. For example, I wanted to tease/make fun of the girl at work I am gaming. She was sitting on the computer with her shoes off. I was thinking what can I say to her to make fun of her rather than the "hey how are you". So BAM I was like "OMG WHAT IS THAT SMELL" automatically she knew I was talking about her haha. Things like that can help. Also they make you go in front of the stage which can make you a bit nervous and uncomfortable, I am not going to lie but I felt a bit uncomfortable at first and then I got over it. So this also can help out in speaking in front of a crowd.

Another thing was that there was an exercise where we had to keep talking about for something we hate and to keep the same energy. So I just kept talking and talking and talking. Some of you may or may not agree with me but I think taking an improv class can help with game in talking and yet making the girl laugh as well. Now I am not saying take the level 7 class of improv and spend a shit load of money but you can just take the basic courses which in turn can help. I am considering taking an improv class just maybe the first few levels.

Also with that who knows there can be a hot girl in the class and you can practice on her.