Alright so I am VERY behind on my field reports. Good thing I remember past sarges a few weeks ago. Well it was one night when JT Asian Playboy sends me a text message to go out with him. Surely I am down for it. This was a Sunday night and it was really slow so we did not go out till like 11pm. We get to the venue and there was not that many sets. We are at the bar and JT sees this girl for me to open. GO!
This was a cute blonde girl all in her vullor workout clothes. So I go and open her.
A - Hey you are fucking adorable, I just had to come and say HI. Hey Im blah (totally forgot her name)
B - She asks me what do I do? I told her I get paid to fuck... (10 sec later) with peoples minds lol. We banter for a bit and then she leaves telling me to come by and say hi while she goes to find her friends.
Now its still early and JT and I are out having a smoke. Cutie and I see each other and I smile. She walks over to us and starts talking. She lights up her cig and talks for like a minute. She wasnt even done with her cig only took two hits and left.
JT told me total IOI damn I am not used to these situations with super hot LA girls lol. I killed the convo when she told me about some movie called Detroit Rock city and I asked her if she has ever been to Detroit before and the convo died down.
So I split from JT and hes doing his own thang and so am I. Not that many sets but its cool. Then another girl out smoking and I walk in and start talking to her. The convo is dying down and I just stand there shit! Oh well it happens. The night was alright not to well.
What JT noticed of what I need to work on is my conversational skills. He can tell that I wait for the girl to start talking to input things into the convo and that I expect her to talk. Which is true. So what I need to start doing is to just keep talking and talking. Another thing I need to keep doing is to start making statements rather than asking questions. He said it all takes time and practice in which I am doing.
Start: talking and just keep talking / make statements
Stop: waiting for the girl to have input in the conversation / asking questions
Overall it was a good night. I have been learning a lot going out and there is never a night where I did not learn anything new.
Till again...
Ralph
Friday, September 24, 2010
Sunday, September 12, 2010
Day 3 with the Michigan girl
Alright so I am finally catching up on my posts/field reports. Last weekend JT invited me out to a birthday party at a club in Hollywood. I decided why not? So I decided to text the girl who I went out with last night. She is up for going to the club. I take her to the club and there are many things that I did wrong...
1. The whole night I paid all attention to her and not game other girls in front of her.
2. I try to get some compliance and things are not there. Tried the kiss denied lol that shouldve been a sign that I should have gamed other girls.
Its all good because this was the first time I took a girl who I just met to a club. Most of the times I go with a bunch of friends but this time it was just her and I. Also with JT and his girl. During that time I thought it would be awsome of me taking a girl to a Hollywood club and showing her around.
What I learned was that when I was with JT, he helped me and gave me a few pointers and examples of what happend.
What I should have done:
JT told me that I should have gamed other girls than just paying attention to her. When we were at the club the girl I brought ended up flirting with JT since he was opening a bunch of girls and she saw this with JT.
What I learned from him was that whole term "Attraction is not a choice" this hold true because an example was given to me by JT was that: Think of a girl with really big boobs shes not that cute but you're still attracted to her because of her breasts regardless if her face is not all that cute. Therefore you cant help it but to be attracted to her.
1. The whole night I paid all attention to her and not game other girls in front of her.
2. I try to get some compliance and things are not there. Tried the kiss denied lol that shouldve been a sign that I should have gamed other girls.
Its all good because this was the first time I took a girl who I just met to a club. Most of the times I go with a bunch of friends but this time it was just her and I. Also with JT and his girl. During that time I thought it would be awsome of me taking a girl to a Hollywood club and showing her around.
What I learned was that when I was with JT, he helped me and gave me a few pointers and examples of what happend.
What I should have done:
JT told me that I should have gamed other girls than just paying attention to her. When we were at the club the girl I brought ended up flirting with JT since he was opening a bunch of girls and she saw this with JT.
What I learned from him was that whole term "Attraction is not a choice" this hold true because an example was given to me by JT was that: Think of a girl with really big boobs shes not that cute but you're still attracted to her because of her breasts regardless if her face is not all that cute. Therefore you cant help it but to be attracted to her.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Day 2 with other Michigan girl
Alright well that night I went to go pick up Michigan girl and I took her to a Tappas restaurant in Santa Monica. It was a fun place. When we were in the car we basically got to know each other a lot. She was asking a lot of questions about me and I was asking her as well. At this point I am wondering if I should...
A. Keep her as a friend and have her as part of my entourage and nothing more. So when I go out to Hollywood she can be one of my girls to get in easier at the clubs haha.
B. Game her and close
C. Both
I didn't know what I wanted to do. So I wanted to feel it out. I am not sure if she is just being friendly to meet new people or what not. So I had to choose. So dinner was good. I was thinking of a way on how I should extract her back to my place after. So what I decided to do was before going out with her I took pictures of my apartment to show her my place. So I did just to get her familiar with my area. After dinner took her back to my place and then had her take a look. I didnt do much maybe becuase I was waiting for the signals? Who knows. Dropped her back off to her place and that was that.
A. Keep her as a friend and have her as part of my entourage and nothing more. So when I go out to Hollywood she can be one of my girls to get in easier at the clubs haha.
B. Game her and close
C. Both
I didn't know what I wanted to do. So I wanted to feel it out. I am not sure if she is just being friendly to meet new people or what not. So I had to choose. So dinner was good. I was thinking of a way on how I should extract her back to my place after. So what I decided to do was before going out with her I took pictures of my apartment to show her my place. So I did just to get her familiar with my area. After dinner took her back to my place and then had her take a look. I didnt do much maybe becuase I was waiting for the signals? Who knows. Dropped her back off to her place and that was that.
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