The 4 Day GTL-Sarging Challenge!

Alright while I was mindlessly thinking of random shit today at work, I thought of how can I push myself? So I thought of my own challenge. You can do this with me too! It does not have to be 4 days in a row but at least 4 days out of the 7 days.

So I thought of the 4 Day GTL-Sarging Challenge!

As some of you guys know or do not know. It is hard to get into Hollywood clubs especially where all the hot girls are at. So I take upon this challenge for myself.

For the next four days, on each day I will

1. Run/Walk 3miles
2. Hit the Gym at 70% or greater
3. Open 5 girls for daygame. (with the intention to number close-time bridge/instant date/same day lay)

Reward: 2 Blu-Ray DVDs or a Boxed Seasoned Set. If I dont hit all three objectives then I fail. I think running/walking 3 miles would be tougher than opening 5 girls during day game.

I may or may not be successful tomorrow but I know for a fact that I will complete this challenge.

Anyway I would like you guys to join me and we can share results. As for the reward - it does not have to be a Blu-Ray DVD but something small or something you want. IE  a new tee or something.

Good Luck!

Ralph

Field Report #4 - Facebook Rebound Game!

So this has been the oddest day so far haha. I randomly met Ross Jeffries and number closed him  and was invited to his seminar. Then I had dinner with an old friend who I met here in LA from work. A bit of a background about her. I met her in Sept right when I moved here and I somewhat gamed her I did not know if she was interested or was just looking for someone to hangout with. But I am going to go to the interested route. So anyway I tried gaming her which I thought I failed so I just ignored her. In the past I was supposed to have dinner with her but completely dissed her and she remembered that! haha whoops!

So what I am writing is about Facebook Rebound Game. I was talking with JT Asian Playboy about just random shit. I dont know how this came along but, I was telling JT that this girl I was gaming suddenly signs my facebook after a few months later. I looked back and before this I signed her facebook back on September 27, 2010. Yeah about 3 months later shes signing mine again. HMMMMMM?!?!

So what JT said was that when girls do that, when they randomly come along out of the blue signing your facebook or texting you out of the blue that means there was some guy she was dating or that the relationship that she is in now is going sour. - I took that advice from JT and stored it in my mind just to keep a note on it.

So I meet up with her today for dinner and we were just catching up about work and life. She tells me about this guy she met. I did not even fish if she has a bf or if she is dating anyone. But I brought up this city we should check out together. She tells me that city that guy lives in and its about 2hrs away. She goes and tells me how great he is etc. - I simply say thats awesome he seems like a nice guy haha! Then she says but our scheudles do not work. He works weekends and I am only free on the weekends. So its not going to work out.

The minute she told me this shit I was like OMG - fucking JT was right! She was dating some guy and then she messaged me out of the blue but shes on rebound! Im down to catch the rebound! haha. Well anyway thinking back at this also. Another girl from my home town started to message me on FB too and we had stopped talking then started up again! Sign I think she was dating some guy then BAM rebound time!

So I called up JT and told him that he was right about how she was dating some guy then suddenly shit went down. So now its time to game! He told me that she basically said that shes available and was putting it in my face. Also he told me at some point there was another attraction that shes back on with me which I am not sure yet. Whatever.

So point in being lesson learned for today: When a girl you used to game or an old friend you used to like starts signing your facebook again after a few monts or you get a random text like "I was looking at pics of us and I wanted to tell you that I miss you and hope you are doing well :)" - I recently got this message from a girl I last texted in June of 2010 (this is probably a sign that there is some issues going on with her bf). Anyway going back when you get a random message its kind of a sign saying "hey let's meet up" or saying Im single again!

Here is what it is about

My status update was this:

What a semi productive day... GTV (gym, tanning, video games lol)

She signs with: gt-vg

Me: Oh yeah good one totally forgot the G haha how are you?? 

 

Then a few days later on my facebook wall

Her: i'm doing well, we need to catch up and have lunch! it looks like you are loving LA. going home for the holidays?

Me: For sure... Maybe we can do manchengo thursday? I'm feelin some tappasss nom nom nom :) I can do dinner no lunch bc it's not consistent. Let me know if you're down...

 

Then the date is on. I can tell that she hates LA is because she does not know anyone. I not gonna lie LA its rough out here but you gotta do what you gotta do. Its funny analyzing shit like this. Most guys will just be like uhh yeah okay sure.  

I'm gonna field test this. I have another girl WAY BACK from middle school who I used to have a BIG CRUSH ON... and everytime I make an update about LA she signs it. Or just random shit on my FB. Maybe ill make up some BS that "I'm in the area" and we should go for happy hour haha. Stay tuned for a field report about this!

Ralph

 

My Personal Goals

My Personal Goals 

Alright well I have been really busy with my online class and after this Monday I will be done with my class and can put 100% into PU. Obviously Ill be working as well. I have composed of 9 goals that I can think of. The whole reason why I moved away from home was to live a life style. Right now I am just semi-living. Not really content.

I have thought of goals and rewards for myself.

Goal #1 - Approach at least 5 women during the day. This is a week on basis, so if I only opened 4 then no reward. I have to do 5. This will change once I start to be really consistent.  In order to complete this goal I need to do some sub-missions for this goal. They are as follows (At the conversation attempt to number close, instant date, or same day lay) I can approach 5 women but yet just for the sake of opening. If none of those was completed then no reward. Week starts Sunday-Sunday.

Reward: One Blu-Ray DVD (I want to start to have a Blu-Ray DVD collection)

Goal #2 - Open at least 5 sets per night sarging. (Obviously if one set goes well and I only opened 2 sets then I completed that goal.

Reward: One Blu-Ray DVD

Goal #3 - Get laid with a new girl I meet.

Reward: A nice $200 pair of jeans.

Goal #4 - Run/Walk at least three times a week for three miles each (5k) on the treadmill.

Reward - One Blu-Ray DVD

Goal #5 - Complete the social circle challenge

Reward: Having a new social circle

Goal #6 - Read more books related to PU (such as: NLP/Inner game/Ertoic books) to help speed my game and apply it. I must finish one book at a time. I am the type to read a book and read it half way then not finish the rest. I have to finish each book.

Reward: One Blu-Ray DVD

Goal #7 Work on my text/phone game - have women send me naked pictures of themselves to me/turn them on and drive to my place.

Reward: One Blu-Ray DVD

Goal #8: Pull a Same Night Lay

Reward: Go shopping for new clothes in Melorse/H&M/Metro Park etc

These goals are subject to change and I will obviously be raising the bar once I get better and better. I will be adding more goals as I go along.

Field Report #3 - Acting helps out PUAs

Alright so this is a past overdue field report but I do remember what happened.

It was a Thursday night out on Sunset Blvd. My wing and I were out sarging at the typical spots from the Game. Mostly all dudes and the sets were all whack. I did not want to go home without a set under my belt for the night. So still there was nothing, until I saw this 7 set. All seated and one seat open for me. I swear it was a sign. Either that or some girl left to use the bathroom.

I say fuck it ill go open. So I go in that set and I ask if they have a lighter. They hand me a lighter to light my cig then I pause and stop. I say wait a minute "are you guys celebrating a bachelorette party?" I just pulled that out of my ass. The girls were like "no but we're all bachelorettes" Nice!

So then I grab the empty seat and I find out that no one was sitting there. So I am there sarging this big set and keep in mind they were ordering food too! haha so the food came they were eating as I sarged and got to know most of them. The set was so damn big I couldnt keep up with the other end of the table.

So then one girl asks me if I ever considered acting since she works for a talent agency. I laughed at her face and said no. She said that I should consider it. So she hands me her card and I leave.

I really wanted to sarge the girls but they left oh well.

Anyway the next day I decided to give her a call and sign up with this talent agency.

I thought:
1. This would be fun
2. I can make some money
3. I can meet other actors in the industry
4. There are going to be hot girls in audtions
5. Once I start getting this rolling I can sarge my agent and her friends
6. I can just meet girls and have them as friends so I roll with an entourage

I think running routines is just like acting. You gotta use the facial expressions and really feel for the convo. We'll see how this goes.

Field report #2

Alright so its 3am and I am fucking tired BUT I have to write this before I go to bed. So I was out in Hwood and I was at a club outside smoking by myself. An cute Australian girl approached me. Btw this is the first girl in LA who has approached me since leaving Michigan. I had a few girls approach me in Michigan but I didnt know what to do.

Well anyway I was smoking a cigarette and by myself chillin taking a break. Getting some fresh air. She comes and says HI and introduces herself to me. I started talking to her and I told her that her accent was cute. (I learned not to do that anymore becausse she gets that a lot, its kinda like when a hot girl gets that shes hot so next time I will NEVER compiment a girl with her accent anymore) So I keep gaming talking. I hold one of her hands she keeps it there on my hand.

Then I thikn OMG this girl is DTF holy shit. We chitchat she tells me that shes staying at her friends house in Beverly Hills. ETC I am trying to find out if I can bounce her or not. So we keep talking then I kiss her on the cheek she kisses mine. I am trying not to make out with her so I can bang her. So we kiss on the lips. Super cute Aussie girl DAMN! Nice body etc. I was like OMG this is weird! hottest girl that has ever approached me in my life!

So I say "let's get out of here" (me trying to take her back to my place and bang her) but she says not yet. Then her guy friend comes up and gets her - BAM cock blocked. I wait to see if she comes back to me but NOPE he drags her away! OMG

So what I learned:

#1 Do NOT go for the kill and say lets get out of here
#2 Start off with Garethes sytle Romantic-Sensual-Sexual (what I did was go sexual)
#3 I shoulve isolated her to another location where none of her friends couldve found her
#4 I should never compliment a girl with her accent at all anymore

So that is it for now that I have learned

Damn it that girl was giving me massive IOIs and I thought she wanted a cig and I was waiting for her to ask me for one. BUT not once did she ask bahhhh all good!

Set #2

Outside of Kitchen 24 I see a girl scrolling though her camera. I say "OMG you're looking at drunk pics already" shes like NO i dont know how to look at my pics with no flash. So I but out my cam and she wants to see my settings. I game and game. I see some IOIs. Her friends go in to go eat since there was a wait. She talks to me for about 10 more mins outside.Then she walks in and I say fuck it. Wahtever go in.

So then i order and chill. After that I had to pee. As I wait i see her come out of the ladiers room and I say HI. I hug her then we chat again for a few more mins. We talk she asks how old I am I find out that shes 32 lol HOTNESS! I tell her that I hate getting to know someone at k24 and I rather get to know her another day. So she tells me that I am not looking for anything. I but some shit saying like "It dont matter I am here and we are here lets just be spirtual and get ot know each other." I tell her that I dont want anythign from you and you dont want anything frome me.

So then she leaves and I piss number close. Then go back to my table to go eat. I find out that shes right by my table (her back faced towards us). As we leave I tell her hey, I am going it was nice to meet you and I will give her a call)

So who knows.

Overall I got IOIs I think?

As in what do i do?
How old am I?

And I think she was bringing her ASD as in saying that I dont want a relationship etc. Whatever

Ill call her and follow up!

Field Report #1 - Approaching is not so bad

Yes I have many field reports but this time I am really going to start counting. Since I do need an odometer on writing all of these field reports.

Ever since I have got to LA in (Aug) all I did was party hard and get drunk and smashed whenever I can. Why? Because back in Michigan all I did was drive. It was very rare that I was able to get drunk and come home drunk without getting in trouble with my parents. Now that I am in LA no parentals I can take a cab back home for an easy $15 no DUI no problem. Now I think I got my partying out of my system, its time to sarge.

I totally forgot how it was like to approach sets sober or having 3 drinks or less. It takes a lot of drinks for me to get tanked. So anyway I was out in Hollywood and I only had 3 drinks (since I drove that kept me at .12 BAC but then 1hr = 1 drink metabolized in your system on average) Anyway, I was able to bring back about 4 groups of girls back and bounce them from the dance floor or random areas on the dance floor which was cool that I was sober.

Now I am remembering the feeling of it being not so bad opening sets sober DUH. If I can do this then I can open girls during day game. I am also running day game because there are times where I have to work the next day and cant go out at night. So this leaves me with no choice but day game. Anyway I just had to write a FR to be back in the game since I was out due to school.

Other reasons why I am slowing down in drinking is that I am getting broke here in LA spending at least a $60 bar tab on top of cab fare. So time to slow down the drinking on how I did it in Michigan.

I will start writing more! Stay tuned!

Ralph

Evolving and learing

Alright so I am VERY behind on my field reports. Good thing I remember past sarges a few weeks ago. Well it was one night when JT Asian Playboy sends me a text message to go out with him. Surely I am down for it. This was a Sunday night and it was really slow so we did not go out till like 11pm. We get to the venue and there was not that many sets. We are at the bar and JT sees this girl for me to open. GO!

This was a cute blonde girl all in her vullor workout clothes. So I go and open her.

A - Hey you are fucking adorable, I just had to come and say HI. Hey Im blah (totally forgot her name)

B - She asks me what do I do? I told her I get paid to fuck... (10 sec later) with peoples minds lol. We banter for a bit and then she leaves telling me to come by and say hi while she goes to find her friends.

Now its still early and JT and I are out having a smoke. Cutie and I see each other and I smile. She walks over to us and starts talking. She lights up her cig and talks for like a minute. She wasnt even done with her cig only took two hits and left.

JT told me total IOI damn I am not used to these situations with super hot LA girls lol. I killed the convo when she told me about some movie called Detroit Rock city and I asked her if she has ever been to Detroit before and the convo died down.

So I split from JT and hes doing his own thang and so am I. Not that many sets but its cool. Then another girl out smoking and I walk in and start talking to her. The convo is dying down and I just stand there shit! Oh well it happens. The night was alright not to well.

What JT noticed of what I need to work on is my conversational skills. He can tell that I wait for the girl to start talking to input things into the convo and that I expect her to talk. Which is true. So what I need to start doing is to just keep talking and talking. Another thing I need to keep doing is to start making statements rather than asking questions. He said it all takes time and practice in which I am doing.

Start: talking and just keep talking / make statements
Stop: waiting for the girl to have input in the conversation / asking questions

Overall it was a good night. I have been learning a lot going out and there is never a night where I did not learn anything new.

Till again...

Ralph

Day 3 with the Michigan girl

Alright so I am finally catching up on my posts/field reports. Last weekend JT invited me out to a birthday party at a club in Hollywood. I decided why not? So I decided to text the girl who I went out with last night. She is up for going to the club. I take her to the club and there are many things that I did wrong...

1. The whole night I paid all attention to her and not game other girls in front of her.
2. I try to get some compliance and things are not there. Tried the kiss denied lol that shouldve been a sign that I should have gamed other girls.

Its all good because this was the first time I took a girl who I just met to a club. Most of the times I go with a bunch of friends but this time it was just her and I. Also with JT and his girl. During that time I thought it would be awsome of me taking a girl to a Hollywood club and showing her around.

What I learned was that when I was with JT, he helped me and gave me a few pointers and examples of what happend.

What I should have done:

JT told me that I should have gamed other girls than just paying attention to her. When we were at the club the girl I brought ended up flirting with JT since he was opening a bunch of girls and she saw this with JT.

What I learned from him was that whole term "Attraction is not a choice" this hold true because an example was given to me by JT was that: Think of a girl with really big boobs shes not that cute but you're still attracted to her because of her breasts regardless if her face is not all that cute. Therefore you cant help it but to be attracted to her.

Day 2 with other Michigan girl

Alright well that night I went to go pick up Michigan girl and I took her to a Tappas restaurant in Santa Monica. It was a fun place. When we were in the car we basically got to know each other a lot. She was asking a lot of questions about me and I was asking her as well. At this point I am wondering if I should...

A. Keep her as a friend and have her as part of my entourage and nothing more. So when I go out to Hollywood she can be one of my girls to get in easier at the clubs haha.

B. Game her and close

C. Both

I didn't know what I wanted to do. So I wanted to feel it out. I am not sure if she is just being friendly to meet new people or what not. So I had to choose. So dinner was good. I was thinking of a way on how I should extract her back to my place after. So what I decided to do was before going out with her I took pictures of my apartment to show her my place. So I did just to get her familiar with my area. After dinner took her back to my place and then had her take a look. I didnt do much maybe becuase I was waiting for the signals? Who knows. Dropped her back off to her place and that was that.

Quick Update!

So I texted the girl from Michigan who I number closed yesterday and I have a day 2 tonight! I will write full details later tonight!

STAY TUNED!

RL!

The Social Circle Challenge has begun!!!

Dum dum dum...

Alright so I decided to do the Social Circle challenge. So it was day 2 of orientation at work and I was just there sitting and chillin. Suddenly a semi cute girl comes up to me and was like, "I heard you are from Michigan, I am too. I just moved here". With a little time left on our break we had about literally 1 minute to talk. We got to know each other and exchanged names. Then that was that.

So after I was thinking, "Holy shit I should get to know her more and number close". NOPE instead I wanted to get the hell out of orientation since it was soooooooo longgggg!!! So I decided F that.

Today day 3 of orientation. I see her again! Score! So it was time to get to know her more again. So break time come along and she is just talking to the other girl in her department. She is cute too but yet she has a ring on. So I try to not look busy and look bored for her to acknowledge me. It doesn't happen. So break is over and she walks past me and goes back to her seat.

Alright I am thinking. OK time to number close or facebook close or something. So as it was time for lunch I see her walking out. I start to walk a little slower so I can "run into her" so I do and I see her and smile and ask, "how's it going so far". So I begin about asking her "Why LA?"

Same reasons as me, she feels like she wants some excitement in her life and was bored in Michigan (I swear Summer Finn from 500 days of summer). I was like awesome me too. We chit chat and get to know each other. I wanted to see if she would stop and chat. So I was like well I am going to get some starbucks. I was like, "Well I don't know if I'll see you again so why don't we exchange numbers". We exchange numbers and we part our ways.

So as we were getting to know each other. I found out that she does not have any family or friends here. So now she is definitely need to know some people. So now I am going to take this 2 ways.

Choose my own adventure:

1. Just keep it platonic and have her in my entourage when I want to go out to Hollywood clubs she can be a possible girl to call out.
2. Keep her part of my inventory and close!
3. Have her part of my inventory, close and have her as my entourage when going out.

I think I will choose 3! haha who knows! I am going to feel it out. As for most of us 3 is the option but who knows. Only thing I worry about is that she may want to be all exclusive and all. As for now I'll worry about that step later.

Tomorrow I am going to give her a call and ask her to have dinner and get to know each other. Alright. Stay tunes folks!

RL

Introduction

I am starting another blog... a new blog for a new start here in LA :)

Alright so I have been in "The Game" since Aug 2009. I recently just moved to LA from Michigan. I used to live at home and now I finally have my own place. Since LA is known to be the "Pick Up Capital" I have basically thrown myself into the deep of the deepest end of the pool. By the deep end I am not talking about a 12ft deep end of a pool. I am talking about the professional diving deep end of the pool which is like 50ft deep (the ones you see in the Olympics) . That's how deep I am jumping in.

I have only been in LA for about 2 weeks. I am not going to lie I feel a bit intimidated about this whole "big city" coming from the suburbs of Detroit and going to LA. Total 180! Of course I have just been here for 2 weeks but that is just how I feel. Even going to the clubs here in LA is like OH shit! haha I know I will be fine but its just a process of getting used to the city. I like it though, I am breaking out of my shell and stepping out of my comfort zone. I know it takes a lot of balls to just pack up and go. Although its just me, I get bored easily and I seek adventure. I like the feeling of change even though I dont. That is just me seeking for answers...

I did not just move to LA for pick up.

These are the reasons why I moved to LA:
1. Michigan is boring
2. I have no kids
3. I have a great job which pays well
4. I do not own a house
5. I seriously do not know how to do laundry (I did do some laundry during the college years but not to much)
6. Excitement
7. I want to look back in my life and say "Damn my life was great"
8. PUA
9. To learn how to be on my own
10. To learn how to manage my money better having responsibilities and bills (asides from cellphone/car payments)
11. To be independent
12. I'm young

... and the list goes on.

So now I am going to start my "Social Circle Challenge" and since I am an ABCs of Attraction Alumni - I am going to restart the "Post-Bootcamp Motivation & Missions". Also I will be typing up daily thoughts and field reports of my own. This is not all about pick up - think of this as more of daily journal of my everyday life.

AG