Evolving and learing

Alright so I am VERY behind on my field reports. Good thing I remember past sarges a few weeks ago. Well it was one night when JT Asian Playboy sends me a text message to go out with him. Surely I am down for it. This was a Sunday night and it was really slow so we did not go out till like 11pm. We get to the venue and there was not that many sets. We are at the bar and JT sees this girl for me to open. GO!

This was a cute blonde girl all in her vullor workout clothes. So I go and open her.

A - Hey you are fucking adorable, I just had to come and say HI. Hey Im blah (totally forgot her name)

B - She asks me what do I do? I told her I get paid to fuck... (10 sec later) with peoples minds lol. We banter for a bit and then she leaves telling me to come by and say hi while she goes to find her friends.

Now its still early and JT and I are out having a smoke. Cutie and I see each other and I smile. She walks over to us and starts talking. She lights up her cig and talks for like a minute. She wasnt even done with her cig only took two hits and left.

JT told me total IOI damn I am not used to these situations with super hot LA girls lol. I killed the convo when she told me about some movie called Detroit Rock city and I asked her if she has ever been to Detroit before and the convo died down.

So I split from JT and hes doing his own thang and so am I. Not that many sets but its cool. Then another girl out smoking and I walk in and start talking to her. The convo is dying down and I just stand there shit! Oh well it happens. The night was alright not to well.

What JT noticed of what I need to work on is my conversational skills. He can tell that I wait for the girl to start talking to input things into the convo and that I expect her to talk. Which is true. So what I need to start doing is to just keep talking and talking. Another thing I need to keep doing is to start making statements rather than asking questions. He said it all takes time and practice in which I am doing.

Start: talking and just keep talking / make statements
Stop: waiting for the girl to have input in the conversation / asking questions

Overall it was a good night. I have been learning a lot going out and there is never a night where I did not learn anything new.

Till again...

Ralph